When life hands you lemons add alcohol and stir!

[MichelleLT]

I think I'm back to shutting up and marking time. If I open my trap then I risk what I do have. If I stay silent I risk losing my mind and soul.

So which is riskier? You can survive without him. You've made it on your own.

Neither is a good option so I'm trapped.

So think of a third option.

lose the victim mentality. And I dont mean you blame others or any similar thing. I mean lose the "oh I cant do that" mentality. I know it's hard but sometimes I am reading your posts and I am thinking "is she blind, crazy, nuts?"

You know why? Because all this time "I have known you" and your life, YOU ARE doing a lot of difficult and amazing things and you have faced successfully some really hard challenges. Why cant you see that? Why cant you recognise that?

You can talk to Gabe, you can be clear, you dont have to be afraid. Havent you learnt anything? ANYTHING? Sometimes I get mad at you. I apologise but you need to wake up and see who you are and what you are capable of.
K

AND YES YES YES YES YES!!!!!!!