I hadn't been down to the WAW section in awhile so just noticed your response.
Not sure if you are still around, but yes, my wife was well aware of the challenges when we got married.
She said she believed things would change once we got married, but then after a couple of months I had to travel to another state to work for several weeks and that's when she decided I was done.
I was floored because before leaving I thought we had agreed, in fact we had even written it down as promises, that the first thing we would work on was our finances.
Now I've got the finances problem well on its way to being solved, and she won't even let me come back into the country to show her things are different.
She feels it is illegal to continue with immigration because she is now intending to get divorced.
She has not yet been in a place to hear that there is nothing illegal about completing the next step in the immigration process, which would at least allow me to come and visit her, and she can always still get her divorce 2 or 3 months from now once I am at least back in the states.
To my astonishment she is now listening to her friends who are saying all I want is a green card.
To me that is absurd.
Thanks for your question. Why do you ask?
I am being the possibility of:
1) Integrity 2) Loving myself completely. 3) Things flowing naturally between us, without any fear or attachment to the outcome.
