I need some help here. The last few days have been hard.

first, he called me at work in a panic that he needed my computer password. Ruined my day. I don't know why. Then yesterday he sends me a text "Do you ever think before you do something, I didn't think so."

Here is the deal...I threw away a 70.00 printer that hasnot been used in 4 years!!! It didn't work 4 years ago and I am 100% sure it didn't work yesterday. He also found in the garbage can (in the garage)an old check book of mine that I ripped up and tossed.

He just let me have it. All the while I just sat on the couch and listened. Never argued back.

Why will he find ANYTHING to critize me about? How should I act the next time?

me:51
H: 48
No kids together
M:14 years
seperated:Ask him to GET OUT 3/21/11
Piecing 09/14