So glad to see some positive results of all the hard work on here for the DB fans - encouragement is infectious that is for sure. My W came over to dinner at the house last night, we had friends from out of the country in and she agreed to come by for dinner with me, our kids and these friends, that was the second time this week that we had dinner with them, once out at a restaurant and now last night the second time at the house. W is still VERY standoffish and still refuses to talk about our R or a future for us, but at least it was nice to see her here at the house enjoying the company of everyone and laughing, I certainly miss her laughter in the house.
One thing that was an encouragement for me is that my W is actually reading Michele's book The Sex Starved Wife. I know this because it is on our Kindle account that we share and when you go onto the account you can see where the last person who was reading the book left off, so I know that she is reading it. She won't talk about our R but at least she is reading one of Michele's books. I don't know if this is a positive sign or not, I would appreciate any input from anyone on here if you think that is a sign of encouragement or if I am just making this up in my own mind here - what do you BITS think ?
M-58 W-56 Married 33 years BOMB -Sept/10 Separated 8 months
BITS (of Fruit) Firstlove
"Go Confidently in the direction of YOUR dreams - Live the life you've imagined" - Thoreau
