kml-that is what I would like, and a roommate would be ok if there was a person I got along with. S and I inhabit the entire house (plus teh room with all of H's stuff still in it) so it would need to be someone I know well. I do have one room available, but with S living with me part time it would be hard on him. However it is something I am keeping in mind.

H and I have been talking and in order to come to a compromise I have proposed us splitting a loss or gain on the house, IF I have to sell by a different percentage like 60/40 so then I am not stuck with it all, but H also doesn't have to pay as much. I haven't heard back from him, but hopefully we can come to an agreement soon.

Me29 S3
H left 4/1/09
I file 8/2/10
Divorce final 5/17/11
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2nd http://www.tinyurl.com/2c35ueg
3rd http://www.tinyurl.com/322yk89