SBH: I don't know if I agree completely...I know my health is very important, but right now I think my kids' and W's happiness should come before mine.

2step: I was originally seeing the IC for M, but it has morphed into trying to help me cope with my sitch ever since W left. Probably not going to do the ultamatium...but I do want to talk to W. I want her to know the toll this is taking on me, and make sure that she understands that I am not ok with the role I currently have in our kids' lives. I have done a lot of work on understanding my W and myself and I feel that I truly do understand why she feels the way she does right now...what I don't understand is why she's not wanting to try to work on it.


BITS
M: 35
W: 35
T14, M11
D9, S6
ILYBINILY: June 09
Unofficially Separated (long distance): 1/2/11
W came home: 3/17/11
EE: July 2012
Dropped the rope: Oct 2012
Piecing: April 2013
Not piecing: April 2014
Stuck.