Okay, so that would be a good place for you to stop with the R talks. It might feel better at the time....or it could make things worse b/c of her closed heart. If she approaches you and wants to talk, then listen to what she has to say and try not to add anything. Tough order!
One reason your beautiful W is driving you crazy is b/c you feel you are losing her. There is something precious you once had available and were free to express how you felt. Now, you see it slipping away and that simply makes you want her more than ever. It's normal for people to feel what you are experiencing.
It is not about what you feel should work in your M. It is about doing the work that gets the right results. Do what works!
