somebody once posted a nice way to say thhe parting words - something that has the following contents:
- thanking the spouse for the years together, they will always be part of one's life, no regrets
- saying that it is hard to let go in your heart (as opposed to letting them go), and yet you know its the best way and that what makes your spouse happy will make you happy too.
- that you will do the best you can with your life, going forward, and if one day she decides she wants o share it with you again, she knows where to find you.
Do take the chance, next, and let her go with a smile she will remember.
Me:49 H:45 D:12 M:14 T:18 Bomb: 6/26/10 EA: 9/3/10, fizzled out slowly, now ??? 11/5/11 Retrouvaille Finally piecing.... Its peaceful at last, but we got a looong way to go
Good to hear from you, buddy! I hope you are doing fine and tried to treat yourself well today. The BITS are right. Try to think of this a the moment when you razed your M to the ground. Now you have a clean slate to start again, maybe. I wish you all the luck in the world.
BITS never walk alone!
FOBD
Me: 39 W: 36 T: 15 yrs M: 9 yrs S: 09/10
So you can get on with your search, baby And I can get on with mine And maybe someday we will find, That it wasn't really wasted time...
