Sparks, When our S commits A we ARE owed an apology BUT they will not give it in most cases. I understand your need for assurance. I can't tell you how far I have gone to verify that my W's EA is over. And she HAS ended her EA. If it IS going on then they are doing some crazy things to hide it. I check EVERYTHING!!!
Yes, I too have had the urge to ask but I don't.
Your mistake is minor. She DOES understand. Let her work through this herself.
You are doing great work!
M: 42 - W: 41 - M: 18 - T: 23 - D:16 S:14 EA - July 2010 NC w/EA - Nov 2010 Piecing - Jan 2011 I ask for div - Jan 2012 Div papers filed - Mar 2012 I move out - July 2012 Divorce final - Nov 7, 2012