Thanks, CS. I just got caught in a weak moment with a wife that was emotionally and physically exhausted. MWD talks about "Strike When the Iron Is Cold" in DR. can't change my reaction, but I can learn for it.

I need to better understand that I cannot make my W's choices for her when it comes to the OW. She has told me there is no contact, and I need to get to a point where I trust her. It is pretty difficult, though.

Me - 33 W - 33
S - 9 months
M - 3 years
T - 5.5 years
Bomb - 12/14/10 ILYBNILWY
PA discovered - 1/18/11
PA began - 3/22/10
Separated