One word of caution and not to put a negative slant. If there was an OM or Ow. They have to get them out to their system as well. When My W came back in July , she kept telling me to go slow with her and not to push her. And I did, and kept going slow at a snails pace in fact. The fact was, she was still having affair , unbeknonst to be me.
My point is , yes, we need to take it slow when recon occurs but also be on the look out for sincerity. My W was stalling when she came back and there was no progress. I think we have to be sure they are coming back for the right reasons, that they want to work on the marriage and not because they are insecure about the future or just need us for security.
