BITS, there was a request for me to put a link to my previous post where I interviewed a buddy of mine who was a WAS for two years. The post is at the bottom of the section that you will get to using this link:

http://www.divorcebusting.com/forums/ubbthreads.php?ubb=showflat&Number=2124073&page=5

I am so glad this is helping others as much as it helped me!!

FOBD

Me: 39
W: 36
T: 15 yrs
M: 9 yrs
S: 09/10

So you can get on with your search, baby
And I can get on with mine
And maybe someday we will find,
That it wasn't really wasted time...