Since the bomb, this has really been our first fight. I say fight, because she was furious and yelling the entire time. I did not fight back and kept control of my temper.

How do I handle this? If I could my family right now, they would tell me quit being a doormat and stick up for yourself. She did this to you. Blah Blah. I am trying to keep things going positive. I just can't believe that she has been trying to turn this infidelity on me. Making her the victim. IS this healthy?

Me - 33 W - 33
S - 9 months
M - 3 years
T - 5.5 years
Bomb - 12/14/10 ILYBNILWY
PA discovered - 1/18/11
PA began - 3/22/10
Separated