The couples therapy had its first good session yesterday. She has not completely agreed to reconcile. She has agreed to go to couple's therapy to rebuild us in an effort to get along regardless of the outcome. She will continue to see her therapist about her sexual orientation questions. We take the long road to trust and forgiveness. Either we stay together or she decides that she needs a woman and goes back to OW. Pretty complicated, but at least therapy and time give me a chance to really DB.
Unfortunately, I had a bad moment tonight. You can read about it in the other thread I just started.
Me - 33 W - 33 S - 9 months M - 3 years T - 5.5 years Bomb - 12/14/10 ILYBNILWY PA discovered - 1/18/11 PA began - 3/22/10 Separated