You essentially need to exude an aura that says "I am so damn comfortable in my own skin it hurts" without overtly saying it.
GH, how would one achieve this?
it's a good start.
Imagine what it would feel like to be "so damn comfortable in your own skin it hurts" then walk around, "acting AS IF" to quote Michele.
Alternatively, order and read the following e-books: Attraction isn't a choice by David D'Angelo THE Man's Guide to Great Relationships and Marraige by David Cunningham
Read them and apply the teachings, exactly as directed.
Then you'll begin to make progress.
Me: 46 W: 46 T: 23 M: 20 DS12 DD11 DS5
W left: 01/28/08 Discovered OM: 02/26/08 W back for 9 days: 04/08 W returned 05/21/08 EA/PA - 01/08-07/09 W's MLC 2008-2014 (realised this much later)