Sitting at home with myself.

[FellOnBlackDays]

Navy, I would advise against the ultimatum this early. I tried that with my W and it failed horribly. Let's put it this way, if it would have worked, you and I would never have met each other. Get it? Ultimatums are a horrible thing for a marriage. It causes one spouse to feel as though they are being controlled by the other. You know your M and your W better than we do, but I would advise against any kind of ultimatum right now.

Your feelings toward delivering this will change. I promise. When she first let, ultimatums and revenge was all I thought about. But, over time, it did get better. I promise it will. And then, you will see that giving her an ultimatum would have been a bad idea.

From one "squid" to another, I would park that for now.

BITS never walk alone!!!!

FOBD