I doubt anyone will have an answer to that, but how is that going to work with son? One of the first things my W and I talked about when this first started was that neither would move far away for the sake of our D. I even stopped thoughts quickly about moving to SoCal when I realized how difficult it would be for our D.
Just curious what the logistics would be in your sitch.
My wife is convinced that because of my addiction history, she needs to be the primary care giver for my son, you know, for his protection. At this point, she's in such a rabid mode that she absolutely will not entertain or budge from the her plan. In other words, she will take our son where her profession takes her. For her, being a doctor has been her dream since, well, forever. Nothing will stop her from achieving it. Is is selfish? Yes it is.
I'm so glad that you and your wife worked things out regarding your daughter. I do hope my son can stay close enough to either of us, and not 2 gajillion miles apart.
