Good to hear from you, buddy! I hope you are doing fine and tried to treat yourself well today. The BITS are right. Try to think of this a the moment when you razed your M to the ground. Now you have a clean slate to start again, maybe. I wish you all the luck in the world.

BITS never walk alone!

FOBD

Me: 39
W: 36
T: 15 yrs
M: 9 yrs
S: 09/10

So you can get on with your search, baby
And I can get on with mine
And maybe someday we will find,
That it wasn't really wasted time...