JTB, that's the most helpful post I've seen. I need more patience too. I've started to push her to say I Love You. I've tried to push her for more affection. My changes have been constant except for the slight pushing. There has been no backslide yet as W is still responding to everything well.
Harrier, keep up the good work! I have no doubt that you will celebrate your 50th anniversary with your W. Our sitches are so similar. We just need to keep going.
I'll tell you that after she told me to stop pressuring her for more I listened. And this morning she said I Love You first... And without pressure from ne!
This DB stuff works!
M: 42 - W: 41 - M: 18 - T: 23 - D:16 S:14 EA - July 2010 NC w/EA - Nov 2010 Piecing - Jan 2011 I ask for div - Jan 2012 Div papers filed - Mar 2012 I move out - July 2012 Divorce final - Nov 7, 2012