What happens if that proverbial rope is not only tied to the spouse, but that spouse has tied the same rope around your children?
You aren't seeing the picture. It is the connection between the two adults in the M, and not the children. Let me give you my idea of dropping the rope.
Oh, well I'll have to find it on somebody's thread. I lost the one I had bookmarked. I'll get back with you tomorrow. Don't let me forget.
It is not about what you feel should work in your M. It is about doing the work that gets the right results. Do what works!
