I wanted to journal this while I am thinking about it.
Monday evening the W asked me if I could get her directions to the document company for her appointment yesterday.
M: (jokingly) I'll get you directions, but you might end up 250 miles in the opposite direction. W: I better get them myself. M: (still joking) I'm not sure why I do anything for you. W: because you like me. M: because I like you, huh? W: because you love me.
I left it at that. BTW, I don't tell her ILY anymore.
The reason I typed that was to get to this point. One of my 180s is that I will text her right before I leave work to find out if she needs me to run any errands forget. Never used to do this before. Here's today's convo:
M: Hey you. Any stops today? I will be leaving in a few. W: Hey there! No stops today. Thanks for always asking.... M: Of course not a problem. It's because I like you. W: lol!!! I like you too!!! End
I might get a 2x4 for that. IDK. Not to worry. It wasn't long lasted. When I got home she was working on the petition.
Me:45 ExW:48 M:04/97 3 Bombs & 2 ReCons 1st BD 11/10 D Finalized 4/20 D-16 S-14 Going in one more round when you don't think you can. That's what makes all the difference in life.~Rocky Balboa