I wanted to journal this while I am thinking about it.

Monday evening the W asked me if I could get her directions to the document company for her appointment yesterday.

M: (jokingly) I'll get you directions, but you might end up 250 miles in the opposite direction.
W: I better get them myself.
M: (still joking) I'm not sure why I do anything for you.
W: because you like me.
M: because I like you, huh?
W: because you love me.

I left it at that. BTW, I don't tell her ILY anymore.

The reason I typed that was to get to this point. One of my 180s is that I will text her right before I leave work to find out if she needs me to run any errands forget. Never used to do this before. Here's today's convo:

M: Hey you. Any stops today? I will be leaving in a few.
W: Hey there! No stops today. Thanks for always asking.... smile
M: Of course not a problem. It's because I like you. wink
W: lol!!! I like you too!!! laugh
End

I might get a 2x4 for that. IDK. Not to worry. It wasn't long lasted. When I got home she was working on the petition.


Me:45 ExW:48
M:04/97
3 Bombs & 2 ReCons
1st BD 11/10
D Finalized 4/20
D-16 S-14
Going in one more round when you don't think you can. That's what makes all the difference in life.~Rocky Balboa