HE DIDN'T CHOSE TO GIVE HER UP AND COME BACK TO ME AND OUR M. He came to me out of necessity.
I'm going to beat my head on my desk now. YES HE DID! Just because he wasn't ready to put a name on it, just because he's not talking about getting remarried or some such, just because he was in a bad place without you, does NOT change the fact that HE DIDN'T HAVE TO COME BACK TO YOU!!!!! HE CHOSE TO!!!!! And he not only chose to come back, but he is now doing the silly nice romantic things he did when you were dating, and he is doing things for you when you are sick. He is THERE. And he chooses every day to be there.
And you also didn't have to be a safe place for him to come back to. You didn't have to let him back into your life. You chose to.
And the new R you are building stems from both your choices. Either of you could break it off at any time. That's always the risk that both of you take. But so far, you have both CHOSEN to stick it out.
It's all about choices.
Michelle - Proud DR Rockette S: 28JUL07, D'd: 29OCT09 http://tinyurl.com/27j9qo2
