and she hasn't text much all day today except to ask me for money
Ah, well......there you go.
Guess I'm in the minority here guys, but I think she was either buttering you up for the money, or she "got off" being a tease. There are a lot of women who do it. It is like flattery to her ego. Now she sees how easy it is to work you.
It is not about what you feel should work in your M. It is about doing the work that gets the right results. Do what works!