Really hard time.... III

[what next?]

I said that I didn't know how to slow down the divorce because legally there was n teal reason to. Im not exactly sure what you think that I should have done differently after the point where I started asking for advice here.

I have initiated contact with her several times and have done a good job of staying positive when speaking with her. The legal divorce was final today but I see That as a good thing for my sitch.