When life hands you lemons add alcohol and stir!

[kat727]

But look at it this way, he could have gone elsewhere or lived out of his car. I know not attractive options. So he came to you and he started out on the couch. Somewhere in there, there had to be the feeling that you could forgive or he wouldn't have moved things forward.

And yes, he did choose to start something up with you...it just isn't clearly defined enough for you yet. New exercise: Instead of looking at the negative, let's see if you can find the positive and then focus on that.

hugs, kat