You've been acting re-actively rather than pro-actively. In your interactions with her. She's had the ball and you've been helping her along. She wants something. You give it. You keep saying that these things are no big deal, etc. but when are you actually going to start fighting "for" your M?
You let her go on her own way and helping her, and then come here to say that you don't know how to stop or slow down the D. Well how about stop helping her.
She hasn't given any indication that she "misses" you. And you were waiting for so long in the hopes that she'd notice you. Doesn't work that way. I'm not saying you need to fight her on things, but you need to increase the positive interactions. If not, you will be a forgotten memory.
M-43 W-40 2D - 9 and 5
Emotion, yet peace. Ignorance, yet knowledge. Passion, yet serenity. Chaos, yet harmony. Death, yet a new life.
