"The feelings you are experiencing right now she was feeling 6 months a year ago. She has thrown up the white and now it is up to you to get her to re-engage."
This is the most informative comment that I have recently read on these Boards. For the past 15 months I have been wondering why my wife doesn't want to work on things! I now realize that this is what she was experiencing from me over the past 10 years! Puts things into a whole new perspective for me.