Denver Maybe it's time to sit down and write a new list of goals. Update your old one. Things that more appropriately pertain to your current standing. This may help to guide you and keep you patient. Rushing my reconciliation was one of my biggest mistakes last summer. This is a trying ordeal on them too. They are testing the waters to see if they can trust you with there heart again. No small task. Had I only known about DBing, I feel confident I wouldn't be here now. Good luck my friend.