I completely understand Is she staying within a reasonable distance to you or is she moving out of state?
My W had her own crazy plans when it came to our kids. I did plenty of research on what my rights were, but she wasn't about to hear anything from me. I scheduled a consultation with a L that both of us agreed to attend. Her plans quickly changed as she heard that I have plenty of rights. Not sure if your W would even agree to consulting a L.
Me:45 ExW:48 M:04/97 3 Bombs & 2 ReCons 1st BD 11/10 D Finalized 4/20 D-16 S-14 Going in one more round when you don't think you can. That's what makes all the difference in life.~Rocky Balboa