Try not to think of it as chasing her or pursuing her, think of it as "seducing" her, for lack of a better term.
* Playful and teasing instead of desperate and needy. * Making her do the work instead of you going out of your way. "Come over here". Slightly demanding. "Send me the pics, I'll give you a score out of 10." * Confident and decisive, not anxious and in-decisive.
A man can still put the moves on a woman without pursuing, acting desperate, and so on. You just have to have the confidence to tell her what you want her to do, and then kick back and let her do the work. Think of it as just telling her there is an opening, she still has to want to go through it, and do the work to get there.
Spellfire aka Mike
"Women do not like controlling men. They respect and are attracted to men who control themselves. They ultimately are repelled by men who allow themselves to be controlled." -S&A
