Divorce or Hope?

[ninelives]

Ahhhh the BITS come through:

Thank You , all of you. I cant explain this down time today and why I am feeling it so hard. I do miss her dearly and just want to talk to her but I KNOW its not the right thing.

Its difficult to know that when she is feeling this way, she can talk to her boyfriend and he is the one that is making her feel better about the situation.

It JUST DOESNT MAKE SENSE. For almost twenty years we were there for each other. She was the one I went to and I for her.

Do they just forget that? Like i mentioneded earlier, she told a mutual friend of ours that she is not sure if she is doing the right thing but then Im sure buddy boy makes her see that he left is wife and that they are in love and nothing else matters.

Thanks Again BITS, I am blessed to be part of this club that was a god send. I still think that my marriage is ultimately doomed and I do believe that one day she will wake up from the fog but that will be too late.

I wonder how many of WAW;s do eventaully wake up to the destruction they have caused and trully regret their decisions.

I guess we will never Know and that is what makes it even more frustrating.

Peace to every one.

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