i know i seem weak, but after what ive been thru for 4 months i dont wanna set myself up for more hurt and rejection if she was just in a mood and i happened to be there.
She's waiting for you to take the lead. You pretty much blurted out to her that it was her fault that you turned out the way you did due to her enabling.
Show her that you've actually changed. You don't tell...you do. Make those changes really stand out.
M-43 W-40 2D - 9 and 5
Emotion, yet peace. Ignorance, yet knowledge. Passion, yet serenity. Chaos, yet harmony. Death, yet a new life.
I dont think im gonna chase her even though our conversation was pretty intense last night. She still made the comment maybe she shouldn't send the pics of her cause i might show then in court buy added a hahahahahaha.
Try not to think of it as chasing her or pursuing her, think of it as "seducing" her, for lack of a better term.
* Playful and teasing instead of desperate and needy. * Making her do the work instead of you going out of your way. "Come over here". Slightly demanding. "Send me the pics, I'll give you a score out of 10." * Confident and decisive, not anxious and in-decisive.
A man can still put the moves on a woman without pursuing, acting desperate, and so on. You just have to have the confidence to tell her what you want her to do, and then kick back and let her do the work. Think of it as just telling her there is an opening, she still has to want to go through it, and do the work to get there.
Spellfire aka Mike
"Women do not like controlling men. They respect and are attracted to men who control themselves. They ultimately are repelled by men who allow themselves to be controlled." -S&A
Heh. Don't tell her that though, even if she was to comply with your request. Tell her it's only an 8 since it's just a photo.
See what I am getting at though? If you are getting green lights, dont sit there with your foot on the brake pedal. If you are getting red lights, don't go running them.
While having these positive interactions, you need to still be working on building yourself up and becoming a stronger man. Hit her from all angles, not just the sexual one.
Spellfire aka Mike
"Women do not like controlling men. They respect and are attracted to men who control themselves. They ultimately are repelled by men who allow themselves to be controlled." -S&A
