Divorce or Hope?

[Queen_of_Swords]

I know you're anxious, wondering what to do.
You're doing great " ignoring" her.
Detach, remember. Don't get sucked into her drama. Go dim, not totally dark. Be friendly, considerate and kind, but don't go out of your way to do it. You want her to come to you.

I so empathise where you are today. I started to get into that negative thought pattern of devaluing myself because of the actions and apparent attitudes of my H.

I stopped. You are a person of worth and value.

Your wife can't see it because she doesn't value herself right now.

You see who she really is, you love who she really is. You're willing to do the work and time.

Breathe, focus, you're doing ok.