I wish I could help more, all I can is I understand EXACTLY what you are going through.

I know you have read my sitch, and we have talked about how I am dealing with it. IMO, being friendly when you do interact, is not validating her actions, it is simply showing her you are a good person, and a strong person.

I think the tough question here, is how much are you willing to put up with, and for how long. That is what I battle with. No easy answer for me.

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Happiness is not something ready made. It comes from your own actions.