Question - my W had the girls this weekend, they spent Saturday at a local park we all used to go to, thru out the day she sent me pictures of the girls playing. I didn't know what to make of it. I didn't reply for a while, didn't really know what to say - I just replied "very cute, thanks for sending".

Why did she send those to me? It just made me wish I was there with them.

Also, when she dropped them off Sunday, she told me the house looks good and told me the new shirt I had on looked good on me. Was surprised, didnt expect that. Just said thanks. Our exchange and interactions have been pleasant lately, I keep my anger in check now, but my gut feeling tells me its not because she's having any second thoughts on all this.

I know she is still spending a lot of time with OM, but I don't even mention or ask anymore.

My girls seem to be doing pretty well tho, in fact I think they are pretty happy. When W has them on week end, she tries to be sure she does something fun with them, and I do the same.

Still miss being all together tho.

Back to work.


Me 44
H 39
Met in 1998
Married in 2004
D 5, twins
Bomb - May 16th, 2010

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