1) She would have to face her friends (who apparently mean more to her right now than I do.)
Just a word of encouragement on this issue.
My W is the same way. She flat out told me a few nights ago that giving our M another chance is 'embarrassing' for her bc she will have to face her friends.
The encouraging part... she is now at a point that she SEEMS willing to do that.
So yes, this is a big hurdle to overcome, but it CAN be.
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M 43 X 38 T 13 W moves out of home 11/2010 Roller coaster from hell 2/2011-5/2012 I request divorce 5/2012 W moves home 6/2012 Good time 7/2012 - 1/2015 I leave 3/2016 process of divorce