Best thing in your sitch is to put yourself in your W's shoes. REALLY. The impatience comes from selfishness. From the beginning you kept mentioning that you didn't understand why your W couldn't do things that you thought were easy for you to get. That you didn't really need to DB, etc.
The main focus on DB is change. You knew that patience was something you lacked but whenever your W wasn't moving as fast as you thought she should have been moving, you'd get angry.
Make it a point to really understand your W's POV as if it were your own. Build empathy for her. That's where that deep connection will come from. Her EA was based off the idea that the OM "understood her". You need to get to that place. Put her needs before your own. Always. It's tough, but you can do it.
M-43 W-40 2D - 9 and 5
Emotion, yet peace. Ignorance, yet knowledge. Passion, yet serenity. Chaos, yet harmony. Death, yet a new life.
