I just read something from Spellfire that really resonates.
The phrase was "Come over and I will prove you wrong."
He was speaking in reference to a WAW who was feeling sexy but said "we can't do that".
My WAW still believes "we can't do that."
She still believes that I cannot satisfy her in the ways that she desires.
I've written about this before, but know I am reinforcing for myself again...
As long as she holds the belief that she already knows me, and as long as she believes that I will never change, then she is compelled to look for happiness and fulfillment somewhere else.
Because there is no chance of me touching her right now, for the moment I can only prove her wrong in other kinds of ways.
I am believing that her and God will give me plenty of more opportunities to do that. In fact every day is another opportunity to become the confident, irresistably attractive alpha-male that she both desires and requires.
From this point forward I will continue increasing my own feelings of self-worth and confidence, and continue letting her come to me.
I am being the possibility of:
1) Integrity 2) Loving myself completely. 3) Things flowing naturally between us, without any fear or attachment to the outcome.
