I don't know where this train is headed, but I've been given an ultimatum. We aren't in piecing because I can't talk a bout my needs and she can't talk about hers.
Harrier, just wanted to echo the encouragement from the others today. You sound like you're really hurting from your discussion last night, and I'm sorry to hear that. Could you expand on this above? What did she say that made you feel like you were given an ultimatum? Other than her saying 'I don't love you' (which I don't believe, and don't think you should either, by the way) I read this post a couple of times and didn't catch the same drift. Was there something else that was said? Or something I'm missing?
I cannot complain for not receiving from others, that which I've never asked them for.