LearningPatience, Thanks for the reply. I'm planning to take things one day at at time. W had to do a presentation this morning in class and I wanted to call and see how it went, but resisted. I always call her after class (around noon) and ask how it went, but then I always follow up with questions like: where are you going now, what are you going to do for the rest of the day, etc? I have suspicions that she meets up with OM for lunch because she doesn't need to be home until the kids get home from school. I worry that if I don't call she will get the impression that I don't care about her and it will just reinforce her perceptions.
Me 46 W 43 M 17 S 14 D 11 ILYB 9/2010 EA began July/August 2010 ? PA began Nov/Dec 2010 ? I began DB in Jan 2011 I filed 7/12/11 Kids and I moved out 7/30/11 I'm in it for the kids and me.
