I couldn't agree with 2Step more. It takes a lot of self-esteem and love to stand for your marriage when you are being discouraged. I can't imagine why she made such a statement.
This bank thing, SIC... it's going to throw her for a loop again. Slowly, but surely, her fantasy is being brought back to reality and they don't necessarily like this. You will be the easiest target. Watch out.
I understand needing the break, though. I'm glad you are looking at that as a positive.
You are NOT crazy for standing for your marriage or standing for the one you love. Someone needs to be the rock. That's got to be you. Don't ask me why you were the one chosen to do this job, but it's an important one. That doesn't make you crazy. It makes you responsible.
