WAW on the Peninsula

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Thanks for the advice Starsky and keeping up with my sitch. I already confronted W about it. I'm going to leave it alone.

The W did make her appointment yesterday to begin the petition process. We talked about it, W mentioned that on her drive home she was thinking that our M would not end like this. Not sure to make anything of that comment.

I did give her a letter yesterday morning that my DB coach help me put together. The letter asked her not to respond, but she wanted to talk about it last night.

Basically I took ownership of all of my faults and of her complaints. I listed all of the mistakes that I could think of that were hurtful to her. Here is the convo that followed:

W: You have been listening, because everything was listed.
W: It is crazy when it all is put on paper.
M: I understand where I failed you.
W: You should make yourself a copy of this letter so you can keep it for reference.
M: I have a copy. I rewrote it 3 times.
M: If you ever decided to work things out, we cannot go back to our old M.
W: I can't go back.
M: Me neither, because I now know the mistakes I made. I wouldn't want to return to this point again.

-We got interrupted, so that was the end of it. The mood is usually good when we talk.

I know, no R talk. She left an opening that I thought was a good opportunity to let her know that if we worked things out, our old M would be over. We would be committing to a new one.