Originally Posted By: Country_Song
I think you did absolutely great on those calls!

Only suggestion is to start backing off on mentioning how you need to recover or how hard this is on you. While it is the truth, it is for all of us, it also puts you in a spot of weakness. JMHO.

Love the way you ended both conversations!


Thanks country. Yup, I've decided that from now no more telling my W about me trying to recover. In fact i am feeling much better now. Gotta show that to her.

Yea one part me felt that i should not have ended it that way. I dunno if i'll get some 2x4's on this. But sometimes i think a lil innocent manipulation might not be that bad smile


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