With her involvement with the other man I don't think anything I do will bring her towards me until the butterflies fizzle out. But I am willing to listen to any suggestions.
That is the way I am looking at my sitch as well, not sure what else we can do. It is frustrating I know, like we are just waiting, but in the meantime if gives us opportunities to improve ourselves. Time to have some fun!
I know there are mixed feelings about this, one is going dark and hoping they will start to miss you, the other is just being friendly and showing them that you are a great guy. I guess I am working somewhere in the middle. Not initiating any unnecessary conversations, but being pleasant and friendly when we do talk. IDK what else to do.
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Happiness is not something ready made. It comes from your own actions.
