Next: So sorry to hear. I too will be in your position in couple of weeks.

I am planning on having a talk with my W the day before the D is finalized. I am not sure what, guess some kind of eulogy for the death of our marriage.

But honestly as many are saying here and i too have the same conviction: This is not the end of the road with your wife. Who knows man, you may get back with her with stronger vows. Keep the faith.

BITS
M 38
W 36
D 7
Married 15 yrs
W left for 6 months in 2009
W Filed for D 01/03/11
piecing now...