Sorry about the previous post, I placed my reply within the quote. Here's my reply again:
Hi Zen, glad you could drop by! Hope you're doing better today.
I agree with you, Country Song and Wanda about backing off. I know I sound like I'm loosinig my grip and going crazy...well, maybe I am sometimes, but mostly I'd like to say I'm grounded in God and DB/DRing to know better. To be honest, letting my wife do what she needs to do thus far would've been really easy me for if we didn't have a child caught in the middle of this craziness. I begin overanalyzing, over-worrying, etc. Both the Good Book and Michelle's program speak very clearly about how to be patient and be loving/gracious etc, but they never really said anything specific about how to handle the situation with those same qualities in mind when there's a third, fourth, or even fifth person in that triangle. So when my wife tries to use him as ammo against me (real or assumed), how can I not want to get personal, you know what I mean? Yes, it is a button she's learned how to press, but this ain't no emotional guilt or scar or whatnot, but a living breathing vulnerable flesh and blood of ours.
