Was talking with my sister on the phone, and I asked her if she noticed that my wife had her married last name on FB to her maiden name. My sister said yes, and told me that my wife had blocked access to her wall. I checked and I couldn't either.
So what's the deal? Note that my wife is not de-friending us, but blocking view of her wall. I wonder if she's so paranoid of my supposed spying and invasion of her privacy that she decided to pull this stunt.
Hi Zen, glad you could drop by! Hope you're doing better today.
I agree with you, Country Song and Wanda about backing off. I know I sound like I'm loosinig my grip and going crazy...well, maybe I am sometimes, but mostly I'd like to say I'm grounded in God and DB/DRing to know better. To be honest, letting my wife do what she needs to do thus far would've been really easy me for if we didn't have a child caught in the middle of this craziness. I begin overanalyzing, over-worrying, etc. Both the Good Book and Michelle's program speak very clearly about how to be patient and be loving/gracious etc, but they never really said anything specific about how to handle the situation with those same qualities in mind when there's a third, fourth, or even fifth person in that triangle. So when my wife tries to use him as ammo against me (real or assumed), how can I not want to get personal, you know what I mean? Yes, it is a button she's learned how to press, but this ain't no emotional guilt or scar or whatnot, but a living breathing vulnerable flesh and blood of ours.
Don't sweat it Alamo. My STXH did the same thing to me a few times after the seperation. He even blocked some of my friends who could care less. I find the behavior quite funny in the sense of how immature it is. He goes thru stages, blocks me, unblocks me. FB does s**k sometimes. I feel our WAS's use it for a billboard. I have more respect than that and I use it as a window. My status is not listed on there, I've never blocked him, there are pics of us still on there. Just remember they THINK they are happy when they truly aren't. Appearances can be deceiving.
