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So my W mentioned to me last night that I must have really low self-esteem.

Personally I think the opposite is true. With a low self esteem I think after the begging and pleading you would have found another woman to raise your spirits. No. Being the rock requires a good understanding of who you are.

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I just can't understand how she/they have no desire to work on things?

The feelings you are experiencing right now she was feeling 6 months a year ago. She has thrown up the white and now it is up to you to get her to re-engage.


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