Hmmmmm...so I think your W is asking for space and you are not giving it to her. And if you don't give it to her she is going to take it. You really have to stop all of this. Who cares what is going on, on FB. She probably feels like she can't breathe and you are smothering her. If you want your W back you need to back off. Only discuss things that concern your son.
Sorry this is a little blunt, but you are nevr going to make it through this week end if you keep this up. You are going to drive yourself crazy. Please for your own sanity, stop this destructive behavior.
I agree with backing off, but at what expense? Allowing her to be all secretive and take my son somewhere undisclosed (she only told me the town they're moving to)? If she has a beef with me, why does she take it out on our close church friends and family and allow her friends and family (on FB one has to specifically choose who you want blocked, so that act was deliberated and planned, not random)? And she expects me to lie on my back and take it because she thinks I don't have a backbone, that I won't draw the divorce card because she knows I want to save this marriage, because even if I do draw the first card, she will hang it over my head forever and badmouth me to my son. She still goes around telling people that I'm a hopeless porn addict, who is also a compulsive liar and a wife beater. I feel like she's playing me even though I try my best to be sincere, upfront and transparent with her. Maybe that's not what she wants from me right now...I don't know.
