Hey BITS

Just letting you know that there is nothing to report for the past few days. Last contact was at the arena when I asked her about Legal issues and she responded the next day via texts that she was happy and appreciative that I talked to her at the arena instead of ignoring ; which is what I usually do.

Question: If i ignore her, it really bothers her and she seems to take notice but not sure if that is working for DBing

If I talk to her, doesn't that validate her relationship with OM like Im OK with it and her decision to leave our family for him.

IM so confused today. Im having such strong feelings of missing her and wondering WHY this all happened and trying to make sense of why she is with this lowlife man that she is with.

Its driving me NUTS today, way more than ususal and I dont know why.

HELP!!!


BITS
M-46
W-42
M-16y
T-19 y
s10 s15
BombDec.19/09
Sep-F16/10
Sep Papers signed by W- June 30/10
Recon July 5/10
PA foundOut- Oct 30/10
Mental HospNov/10
moved out Nov/10
Leg Sep Mar 15/11